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The conversations that matter most are often the ones we keep putting off

A series of practical handbooks for adult children and their ageing parents, written by someone who knows both sides of the table

Some books help you escape

These help you stay present

Richard Lyon has spent more than 50 years as a journalist, editor, writer and professional communicator. He has interviewed authors, politicians and sports stars, reported from crime scenes to court rooms, edited national publications and written across every format imaginable. Now, at 81, he is writing the most personal work of his career.
The series “The Conversations They Won’t Have” is built on a simple but uncomfortable truth. That almost all families that have ageing parents avoid the very conversations they most need to have. Not out of cruelty or indifference, but because no one quite knows how to begin, and the right moment never seems to arrive.
These handbooks are for adult children who love their parents and want to do right by them, but find themselves at a loss when it comes to talking about the future. About health. About money. About wishes. About what comes next.
Richard writes not as a distant expert, but as someone who has lived through these questions himself.

The Conversations They Won't Have

Practical, down-to-earth advice on how to have the conversations families need to have

When your parents won't talk by Richard Lyon book 1 cover

Why Your Parents Won’t Talk

Book 1
A guide to the problems surrounding this vitally important conversation

What you say and what your parent hears may be two completely different things. This short guide explains why this is and how to manage the conversation beneath the conversation.

Available on Amazon as an e-book from June 17.

Book 2: Shutting You Down

Five ways your parents try to avoid the discussion

Book 3: Say It So They Hear It

Why the words you choose change everything

Book 4: The Sentences That Open Doors

What to say, word for word

Book 5: When It Turns into an Argument

Staying close when conversations become hard

Book 6: The Last Difficult Thing

Staying human through ageing, decline and loss
These are not books about death. They are books about love, and the practical, imperfect, necessary work of expressing it before it is too late.

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